Tuesday, May 29, 2007

Another of my thoughts...


Destiny's Cries... Who have read this story before? Well, if you have, I'm sure you know of what I'm going to post now. We write our own destiny? Who agrees with that? Is fate equal destiny or coincidence? If you were to ask me, I truly believe that the above-mentioned are inter-related, by whatever reasons. Having read "Destiny Cries", I've only realised that "Love" wasn't all about time, but rather the feelings within. How are we so sure then?

Love, I mean True Love, can be only lasting for one day, but the feelings which emerged are for what seem an eternity, finding it would be one in a million. In a nutshell, the joy within the relationship is more important, as comparing with the duration of it. A couple may have known each other for more than a decade, but would only realise their differences after a decade and one day, thus leading to a separation. Isn't it a little sad and a pity? Many would say yes, but I beg to differ. So what if they broke up a day after that decade? The fact remains that, the time spent within that decade was a fruitful, unforgettable and a meaningful one. Of course, Time isn't the key to a successful relationship. It was always about the feelings felt. So what is it's 10 years, 20 years, or even a millennium? As long as the feeling dissipates, the flame would soon die off.

It sounds a little contradictory on the whole, but think of it rationally. Why bother how long it can last? Might as well, devote yourself totally to the present, writing your own destiny? Obviously, the longer the relationship lasts, it only proves the stronger the feelings innate. People always say, "IF", "Providence decrees" or "Fate", to what extent do they understand the complexity of these words? I personally do not believe in fate; I've always believe in going the way destiny paves the path. I do not pray for things to come my way; I always pray that I'll be able to do the things that come my way. Understand the difference? We write our own destiny, the Heaven's above only predicts. If you want it to happen, you can, with determination and willpower. Heaven paved 50% of our roads or for things to happen, but the only difference that can be made is by YOU! Be it to continue the road of the remaining 50%, leading a life of happiness or bitterness, is all up to YOU!

After all that, I do not seek the purest understanding from all. It's only my perception. To those who read, it's a mutual understanding that "to each its own". Our happiness is only for us to grasp. No one, except yourself, would be able to create YOUR OWN DESTINY!